Sex positive psychotherapy for people ready to thrive. 

Welcome to Garden Space Counseling. We're planting seeds for meaningful living. 

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • What issues do you work with?

    In a nutshell, I provide psychotherapy specializing in sex and intimacy concerns, including things like communication, desire discrepancy, problems with arousal, painful sex, infidelity, relationships, and sexual identity. 


    But, we don't have to talk about sex if that's not your concern! I also frequently work with families and individuals navigating anxiety, boundaries, trauma, and gender identity, and I have well over a decade of therapeutic experience working with a wide range of other concerns like depression, anger, loss & grief, chronic illness and medical trauma, parenting, aging, bipolar disorder, shame, family of origin conflict, perfectionism, and body image. 


    I've been in this field a good number of years, and I've been honored to work with all kinds of people trusting me with all kinds of concerns. I'm committed to helping you cultivate life and relationships filled with authenticity, trust, joy, and intimacy. 

  • What is your rate, and do you take insurance?

    Individual office-based or telehealth session:  $175 for 50 minutes 


    Relationship session (dyads): $200 for 50 minutes


    Relationship intensive: $1250 for 5 hours (in person and Fridays only)

    • 8:00-11:00
    • 11:00- 12:00 break
    • 12:00-2:00

    Group rate: $65 for 75 minutes

    Gender Variance in the Family System: A process and support group for partners of TGNC individuals. 


    Sliding scale between $130 - full rate (individual) and $150 - full rate (relationship/diads) is available on an as needed basis. Sliding scale not available for intensives. 


    For lower sliding scale availability ($70-$80), please check out my Open Path Collective profile. 



    Individuals wishing to use their insurance will be asked to pay out of pocket, and I will happily provide a monthly superbill, which is an invoice that may be submitted to your insurance provider for possible reimbursement for out of network services. Please check with your insurance provider to see if you could benefit from this option. 

  • What is sex therapy?

    Sex therapy is informed talk therapy with specialized training to help people address sex and intimacy concerns that are impacting their quality of life, sense of self, or relationship connection. I work with adults navigating challenges in the context of self-pleasure and consensual adult sexual relationships. These can include, but definitely aren't limited to, sex and aging, desire discrepancy and low sex/no sex relationships, erectile dysfunction, anxiety and embarrassment around sex and masturbation, jealousy, infidelity, low desire, arousal difficulty, sexual avoidance and anxiety, unwanted sexual thoughts or fetishes, orgasm difficulty, pornography concerns, and out of control or compulsive sexual behavior (commonly referred to as "sex addiction"). 


    Sex therapy is NOT sex work or surrogacy. While intimate and sexual subjects are discussed and processed in the therapeutic dynamic,  there is no physical touch or sexual intimacy of any kind.

  • How do I know if you're the right therapist for me?

    First, I'm just going to throw out there that I'm good at this. My credentials are Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (LPC-S), I'm a huge fan of continuing education (both providing and receiving), and I love what I get to do for a living. Counseling is definitely my jam. 


    Now, with that out of the way, not every therapist is made for every person, so I encourage every potential client to consider if we will be compatible. I encourage you to read on this webpage about me and my approach (including both clinical perspectives and my practice as intersectional, affirming, and inclusive), and I'm happy to chat with you for a few minutes on the phone to get a feel for the fit. If so, wonderful! If not, I am also happy to see if I can find referrals that could better suit your needs. 


    If we're already working together, and questions of our compatibility arise, I absolutely encourage you to bring it up in session. Our therapeutic relationship is, itself, a therapeutic tool. Your feedback, and addressing these concerns is important.

  • What groups do you offer?

    Gender Variance in the Family System: A process and support group for partners of TGNC individuals

  • How long should I be in therapy?

    Almost everyone I have met with feels some degree of relief within the first session. 


    The ongoing plan, though, varies broadly from person to person. I've met with individuals who felt like their concern was sufficiently resolved with just that one in-depth session, with the door left open for follow up appointments, as needed. Others meet for a few sessions to take it from there on their own, and then there are individuals who prefer to meet weekly, biweekly, or monthly on a long-term basis.

     

    A lot of factors can play into the duration and frequency of your counseling experience. We can collaborate to figure out a plan that works best for you. 

  • How much do I have to tell you?

    Short answer: As much or as little as you want or are comfortable with at any given time. 


    Longer answer: Often, the more information we have, the clearer our understanding of any given concern will be, which might help us resolve it. We can't address the things we're not able to look at, and things often get a lot bigger and scarier in the dark. However, there's no rush on anything! See the short answer above. We work at your pace.

  • Are you going to diagnose me?

    Well, I can, but I tend to keep diagnostic endeavors minimal, at most, unless something more specific is required for insurance reimbursement, treatment planning, or some other need. I have something of a soapbox about diagnosing. After 10+ years of experience working with and diagnosing people with major mental illnesses like depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, schizoaffective disorder, borderline personality disorder, PTSD, and more, I'm pretty good at diagnosing... if I have to do it. 


    Diagnoses are a tool to help people get connected with the right kind of support and to help them make sense of what they are going through. However, diagnosing mental illness is not always (or even usually) very straightforward, and diagnoses don't even come close to representing the whole of any individual's experiences. Also, it's a common perspective in the mental health community that EVERYONE meets criteria for SOMETHING at some point in their life. 


    In short, if it seems like you could benefit from some additional support or insight that would merit a specific diagnosis, or you have a clear history or presentation of clinically relevant symptoms, we can talk about that. Otherwise, we won't worry about it. 

  • What are your hours?

    Please reach out for current openings. 

    • 8:00 Monday - Friday
    • 9:15 Monday - Friday
    • 10:30 Monday - Thursday
    • 12:00 Monday - Thursday
    • 1:45 Monday - Thursday
    • 3:00 Monday - Thursday

Therapy Approach

With hundreds of hours (and counting) of specialized training in sex therapy, intimacy, and relationships (among other things), my practice is uniquely equipped to address challenges around sex, infidelity, communication, identity, and intimacy. In my years of practice, though, I've also had the privilege of working successfully with people bringing a broad range of other concerns to my office, including trauma, anxiety, chronic illness, grief, and more.  I work from a relational and neuroscience framework, with tools borrowed from modalities like Narrative Therapy, EFT, PACT, IFS, CBT, CPT, and others as needed and appropriate. 


Garden Space is intersectionally allied and sex, sex work, kink, and poly/nonmonogamy affirming and informed. 


Through exploration of your experiences, we develop insight into how and why thoughts, behaviors, and patterns may have originated. Building on that, we develop a shared understanding of how they may no longer be serving you, and how we get to effectively address them to create meaningful change. 


So, what does all that actually mean? It means I offer a secure, brave space to work with you in the context of your own life and relationships. It means that my role is to help you recognize patterns and barriers, and to gently challenge you from a place of professional insight, curiosity, cultural humility, and alliance. We tap into your strengths and wisdom, we develop shared insights, and we use it all to help soothe your nervous system, break habits that don't serve you, recognize and develop habits that do, and empower you to cultivate intimate, empowered, meaningful connections in your life. 


Of course, therapy isn't always comfortable and change doesn't come without some degree of challenge. It can be really hard work. Sometimes, though, the hardest things to work on are the ones most worth the work. YOU are worth the challenge and the investment in yourself. 

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